I want to share with you all a post I made on a forum recently, and also expand on it since it's kind of short (though it's directly to the point).
I was responding to YET ANOTHER of those hamster-trot "Where Are All The Good Men?" piles of vomit disguised as 'articles' that pop up on the Interwebz and in magazines like dandelions after the rain.
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From the 'article':
Men cannot live without feminine energy and if women raise their
standards of who they share even their friendship with men will find it
impossible to resist growing to meet them.
…but first men will become angry.
When that doesn’t work they will attempt whining.
When that doesn’t work they will try to negotiate.
When negotiating fails they will go back to anger disguised as passive aggressive silent treatment.
They will hold out for a short while and then attempt intensely personal insults.
My response
I'm not even going to get into the 'feminine energy/grrrrlp0WeR!' bullshit.
I will, however, point out that I am not the one that needs to grow. I
am not the one that feels the absolute, overwhelming need for a long
term, committed relationshit. In fact, if I NEVER have a committed
relationshit again, I can die a happy man, having banged as many women
as I want from now until they stick a tag on my toe.
Just because a gaggle of cunts somewhere have come up with an
unrealistic list of 'standards' (more like a fucking Dream Sheet of
Desires, but let's let that go for now) doesn't mean I have to make any
changes to who I am, how I act, how I dress, what kind of shoes I wear,
what kind of car I drive, who I hang out with.....nothing.
Twats need to remember something, something that I am going to spell out right here, right now, so it's nice and simple:
I am the motherfuckin prize. Me. Not you.
You're the who needs the relationshit; I'm the one that doesn't give a
shit. You're the one that might as well have been stamped out of dough
with a cookie cutter; you're the exact same as 100 million other cunts
in the US, and all of you have less personality than the pizza that I'm
eating as I write this. I, on the other hand, can GUAR-AN-fucking-TEE
you won't meet anyone like me, anywhere, ever. I'm the one who will
work, trade, or otherwise provide for myself for my entire life. You are
the one who wants to be taken care of, and will stop working as soon as
you possibly can.
You cunts are not the prize, and the sooner you get that through your
heads, the quicker you adapt to it and change yourselves, the happier
you will be.
Just not with me. I refuse to do the marriage bullshit again, I don't
care WHAT kind of positive changes are made to the laws. One gash for
the rest of my life? Fuck that.
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There are a few things that I forgot to mention in my reply. I was eating dinner at the time, so I was kind of distracted by pizza. Not that that's a valid excuse, mind you; just a statement of fact. Here's another: I really like pizza.
Anyway
The dumb gash that wrote this article is doing this thing called projection. She projecting HER thoughts, feelings, likely actions, etc., onto someone else. In this case, men. She's also absolutely wrong. Let'slook at this piece by piece.
Men cannot live without feminine energy
False. Most men PREFER to not have to deal with the bitching, nagging, and general cuntiness that is this alleged 'feminine energy'. We put up with twats for one reason, and one reason only: sex.
If a man wants intelligent conversation, he talks to another man. Women are not intelligent. Some of them THINK they are, and some of them may be book smart, educated, etc. Education does not equal intelligence, however. And just because you have a master's in social issues doesn't even mean you're educated. It just means you went to college longer than many people.
If a man wants to laugh, he finds the company of other men. Women are not funny. Again, some of them THINK they are, and some think other women are, but they're not.
If a man wants a friend that he knows will bail him out of jail at 3 a.m., or better yet be there WITH him, he befriends another man. Women are completely self-centered, and won't do anything for anyone else without some kind of payout for themselves. This is (part of) why women don't have any TRUE friends. A man will help his friends move, loan them a car if theirs is broken, stand up for them if someone is trying to make trouble, even take a bullet for them. Women will do NONE of that.
if women raise their
standards of who they share even their friendship with
How likely is this to happen? In a word, NOT. If they raised their standards, they would ONLY associate with men, because women are not capable of friendship, any more than they're capable of love. See above re: payout for themselves.
men will find it
impossible to resist growing to meet them.
False. Not only are we not the ones that need to grow, but many of us find it quite easy to not to whatever it is that women are trying to demand of us this week. We're more than happy to tell the female population to piss off.
…but first men will become angry.
False. I've already said it, but I'll say it again: men don't want women as friends, because women aren't true friends. Therefor, men have no reason to try to meet these raised standards. And when (more like IF) women start to leave us the hell alone, we won't be angry: we will heave a great sigh of relief.
When that doesn’t work they will attempt whining.
False. Again with the projection. WOMEN are the ones who whine when they don't get exactly what they want. Men either FIND a way to get it, or change their goals.
When that doesn’t work they will try to negotiate.
False. Projection. When men see that there is no way to meet the demands being placed on them, they'll simply decide it's not worth it, and find some better use of their time.
When negotiating fails they will go back to anger disguised as passive aggressive silent treatment.
FALSE. Again, WOMEN are the ones that resort to the passive-aggressiveness when they don't get their way. If a man is giving you the 'silent treatment', it's simply because he doesn't have anything to say. Or, more likely (when dealing with women), there's no point in speaking because it will only be ignored anyway.
They will hold out for a short while and then attempt intensely personal insults.
FALSE. All the shaming articles and "Where Are The Good Men" articles out there should be proof enough that WOMEN are the ones who will resort to personal insults in an attempt to achieve their desired goals. All that "A REAL man would (insert action that only benefits women)" bulldrek, the not-even-bothering-to-veil-them insults in the "Where" articles, and any other crap these female 'writers' can throw into the piles of garbage that they call writing.
These cupcakes need to stick to their social work and cats.
